I wanna be so tiny of a person that no one can even find me!!!!

It's been almost 2 years since my last post.  Wow!  Time sure does fly and things sure do change.  Life is a crazy thing.  So to catch everyone up on these past 2 years.  My divorce was finalized in June of 2011...I dated the sheriff very intermittently for about 9 months...we were so off and on half the time I didn't realize we were on.  I was on facebook and was friends with this one man for years and we never really communicated until November 30th 2011 he sent me a message.  I went on a trip to Vegas with a girlfriend mid December that year and we were texting one another during my entire trip and when I returned we went on our first date.  3 months later we were married and we just had our 1 year wedding anniversary last month.  Now that everyone is all caught up on my personal life I suppose we can go back to WHY I am posting this.  I thought by now the games would be over...but they continue.  Yesterday I arrived home to a letter in my mailbox from the ex.  It's his letter notifying me of the summer vacation he has planned.  It just so happens to fall on our daughters birthday week.  So in the letter it states "my daughter".  As if I had nothing to do with the creation of said child.  So the vacation will begin on my normally scheduled Friday (prior to her birthday) and end the following Sunday...as he stated in the letter anyway.  Well there goes any birthday plans I may have already made the weekend before her birthday.  So I might have found a loophole in this little thing we call a custody order.  It states that each parent is allowed two summer vacations.  One being from Friday at 8:30pm till the NEXT Saturday at 10:00am.  The other being from Friday at 8:30pm to the following Friday at 8:30pm.  I could be the mature parent and just let this go...but what fun would that be???  Or I could just so happen to schedule my vacation to begin the Friday after his at 8:30pm.  At what point do you get so tired of being walked all over by your ex and decide you are done being the bigger person???  I decided a while ago I was done being bigger...I want to be so tiny of a person that no one can even find me!!!!  They like to follow the order we have to the T so I followed suit a while ago and decided to do the same!  Welcome to the new chronicles of already being divorced from a douchebag ;)