my DEERest...

i think my ex will have a heartattack when he finds out that i'm requesting mediation/counseling for us to attend together with our daughter due to current issues our daughter is having in school and lack of communication.  i wonder which would be worse in his mind...couseling...or more child support and modifying the custody agreement.  i have truly never met anyone as "special" as he is.  most of the time he looks like a dear in headlights.  i just wish they were my headlights...and that he was really a deer.